You know, in previous articles we have stressed the importance of Self-Regard, and Self-Confidence as parts of Beauty – but sometimes one has to delve into the subject a little deeper to really recognize and make full use of their connection to each other.
Let’s say for example that you are a woman trying to impress a man whom you feel has the potential of being the ‘right one’. And, you are trying to give the impression that you ‘care’ and therefore focusing on his needs and desires.
That can be done in such an ingratiating way – that it is a huge turn-off. That would give the exact opposite effect that you had intended.
If you just think about that for a moment – you will see that your special someone is actually turned off by getting more – than he gives to you.
It may be that in doing so, you have sacrificed the aura of self-confidence that really is the biggest turn on of all – by trying too hard to please.
So, just what is Self-Esteem? It is the way you think and feel about yourself.
Sounds pretty simple doesn’t it?
But if you are trying so hard to please, aren’t you in fact and action, projecting the idea that what you think and feel is not nearly as important as what he thinks or feels?
Once that is projected – your self-assurance that is so vital to your overall goal of beauty and attractiveness – is gone in a wisp of smoke.
Wow – that it not what you want!
If that is the case – all the beauty tips, all the beautiful skin treatments are not so important. They did not do much good, if self-esteem is lacking.
‘Negative Thoughts’ are your mortal enemy. They can take the fairest skin, the most beautiful complexion – and cast a pall over everything. They can take the straightest of shoulders, and make them slouch.
Put a guard house in your mind – and allow only positive thoughts in. Remember that your mind is where you live. Don’t hang garbage (negative thoughts) on the walls of your mind.
You know, there are so many aides we can all use, but they must be chosen wisely, and actually used. So, do take advantage of successful well-received books on self-empowerment, self-esteem – and by all means take advantage of the tremendous advances that science has made in restoring youthful beautiful skin.
So, yes – you can banish negative thoughts through mental discipline, and make yourself over – with skin care, youthful vitality, and a new outlook on life.
The makeover is truly yours for the taking. TAKE IT!