Honesty. Will it land you the woman of your dreams?
“Tell me the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth” she said. Does this work when you go out to make someone fall in love with you? Does it make you uncomfortable when you tell the truth? So, would you like someone to know everything about you? And… what if they know the whole of you and decided that the “all of you” is not what they want?
Let’s look at the benefit of honesty in a relationship, and then you understand why honesty can be a great tool to make a woman fall in love with you.
“What is uttered from the heart alone, will win the hearts of others to your own”
It is a natural instinct for man to lie when they get attracted to a woman. So, how can honesty help you be attractive to women?
Honesty about what you desire. If you have been going through the same old routine for a long time, then you need to be honest with yourself about what you really want. For once you need to embrace change. Know the changes that you really want and go after them to attain the new “You”.
Be honest about your pitfalls to your success. Drop the blame game. When you made a particular decision, you were not influenced by anyone. So, agree that it was your mistake and you need to leave them behind and move ahead positively.
Be honest when you think about what you could have done differently. When you blame your problems on someone else, then they are the one who have the power to change it. If you take it that the situation in your life is your fault, then you have the power to change it. What is involved in changing your life? This can be summed up in three words: Change Your Habits!
Become the new “You”. So you now ready to reap the fruits of honesty: happiness, excitement, energy, fulfillment, passion, more passion, and fulfillment. Approach your targets with full honesty. See how it works out. I know you will ask me, what if the approach fails again. Read on to find out the solution.
Be honest again about why it did not work out. Analyze your experience and find answers as to why you failed in your endeavors. Then take full responsibility for your actions.
Be honest about what you need to do differently next time in the same situation. Come up with a plan of action on how you will approach the same decision next time. Come up with ways you will prevent things from going that way again.
Try again putting into consideration the factors you had identified to be the setbacks.
When you don’t succeed again, don’t give up, keep on repeating the last steps.
In summary, if you make a decision to be honest from today onwards, you will have much more enjoyable interactions with them. You will also be able to have a better relationship with yourself because you will always treat others the way you treat yourself.